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If you are interested in working as a volunteer on the Chat Line, please contact Christina Baer at 215.343.9241 x110 or cbaer@awomansplace.org.

 

What is Teen Dating Abuse and Violence?

Teen Dating Abuse and Violence is a pattern of behaviors used to gain power and control over a dating partner involving the use of emotional, verbal, sexual, and/or physical harm.

It is NOT:

  • A bad mood
  • An argument
  • About intense love
  • An anger management problem
  • A result of drug and/or alcohol use
  • Just hitting or pulling hair or pushing...it's name calling, put-downs, threats, isolation, excessive/unwanted texts and phone calls
  • A one-time occurrence (dating abuse occurs repeatedly and worsens over time)
  • A minor concern

What are my rights and responsibilites in a relationship?

I have the right:

  • To express my own feelings respectfully, even if they are negative.
  • To have my feelings repected by others.
  • To refuse a date.
  • To choose and keep my own friends, both male and female.
  • To have my own opinions.
  • To have time to myself.
  • To say no.
  • To wear what I want.
  • To say no to being sexual, even if I have been before.
  • To be treated as an equal.
  • To be human and make mistakes.


I have the responsibility:

  • To listen.
  • To determine my limits and respect the limits of others.
  • To communicate clearly and honestly.
  • To not threated to harm myself or another.
  • To be considerate, but not submissive or aggressive.

How can I get out safely?

  • Get support - discuss concerns with a trusted friend, parent, family member, or teacher before ending the relationship.
    • Do not confront the abuser alone
  • Try not to engage in debates or discussions about why you are ending the relationship. It is not your responsibility to comfort or "be a friend" to your ex-partner.
  • Safety first - if you think your partner's reaction may be dangerous to you, take steps to stay out of harm's way. This may mean ending the relationship over the phone, online, or in a public place.
  • Keep in mind:
    • You are the expert in your relationship - you know how your partner might react, what they may say, and what's best for you.
    • You DO NOT deserve to be abused.
    • You deserve to be happy, healthy, and safe in your relationships.
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