Ten ways you can take a stand

1. Guide the abused person to A Woman’s Place. Let her know she is not alone and that caring people are available to help her. She can call the hotline anonymously (1-800-220-8116). All services are free and confidential.
2. Be a friend in Deed. Tell her you’re there for her when she needs you. Provide whatever you can: transportation, childcare, financial assistance.
3. Moms and Dads, teach your children that abuse is never ok; they’ll follow your example of equality and respect.
4. Take a stand with a friend, “I’m not going to sit here as your friend and watch this happen and not say anything about it.”
5. Urge the abuser to seek help. He can talk to a counselor, a member of the clergy, or the domestic violence hotline.
6. Be specific about what you saw, and how it made you feel. “I didn’t like it when you told your wife she was stupid in front of all of us, and I can only imagine how it made her feel.”
7. Give the abuser a reality check. His violent actions will have consequences. “This is a crime, and you could be arrested.”
8. Domestic Violence is a crime. If you are a neighbor or otherwise know that a battering incident is happening, call the police immediately. It is the most effective way to protect women and children from immediate harm.
9. Ask your community group, Scout troop or congregation to invite A Woman’s Place for a presentation. Become informed.
10. Learn more about domestic violence. Contact A Woman’s Place.